Most people have been through a relationship, especially at this age. And through experience i've come to realize that alot of them follow the same format, if not similar.
Sooooo..basically it goes as follows..
The guy meets the girl either through a friend or maybe even myspace, and they hit it off. Late night conversations , texts during class and IM'ing each other every waking hour. The beginning is always the best and most people make the common mistake of thinking this "chemistry" will last throughout the remainder of the relationship. People with that mindset, get their hopes up and end up failing.
So let's say the couple lasts. Alot of the time, the balance of power in the relationship is shifted towards the guy, whether it be the male ego or something else. But yeah, in the beginning of the relationship the girl tends to be "whipped". But as the relationship goes on, and they get closer and closer and even more intimate, the balance of power in the relationship goes to about even. The normal mind games that the guy would play doesn't work as much, and usually the relationship gets on rocky territory. Usually after that first rough patch, the girl starts to gain more power as the guy starts to get a little more emotional and jealous. The littlest thing gets the guy jealous and the girl realizes that, and often uses it to her advantage whether it be intentionally or unintenionally.
So in the beginning of the relationship, the guy has the power and towards the end the girl has the power. Tell me that's not true. In almost EVERY relationship i've been, that's been the case. It might just be me, but i doubt it. I've watched friends go through similar predicaments. I think it's because girls are more in touch with their emotional side, so towards the beggining they tend to be emotionally attached while the guy is still developing his feelings. But once one person has too much power over the other, the relationship fails. 9 out of 10 times one of the people in the relationship get bored, or they find someone who's more exciting.
I don't know why i wrote this. I had nothing to do after school, and i was following up and thinking about a class discussion in class. I was rambling half the time so forgive me if it doesn't make sense or it's completely false.
Get @ me if you want a debate. Hahah. I'll probably add a bit more later.
" I put on the weight, you put on the breaks. And now we both sit around with that look on our face. I wonder who you seein, and you wonder who i'm seein, but we too afraid to ask cause we both got our demons. The reason we should try and keep this thing together, cause we stood by each other through all types of weather. "
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
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I'd like to be the first to argue. People can't have loved all figured out, cause it simply can't be figured out! I don't know where you got your statistics from..
Jealousy and power are two natural parts of a relationship that the two have to balance and agree on.
When one has more than the other, if it's love... are willing to do whatever it takes to make it work..
"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own"- H. Jackson Brown Jr.
And it's normal for "the relationship get bor[ing], or they find someone who's more exciting." But love conquers all my nigga.
& that picture up there is quite awkward to look at. HA
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